The Deep Connection Between Love and Hate
Hate can feel overwhelming, but when I look back on the times I’ve felt it, I realize something important: we only hate those we once loved deeply. The ones who know our hearts can wound us in ways no one else can. I experienced this when someone I trusted completely broke that trust, and the love I felt twisted into resentment.
When Love Turns into Betrayal
At one of the hardest points in my life, I reached out for help from someone I loved. I wasn’t asking for a solution, just to be seen and heard. But instead, I was dismissed. That moment taught me that hatred doesn’t come from the lack of help—it comes from the pain of being ignored. It’s like calling out for help in a storm and being told, “You should’ve known better.”
The Pain of Being Dismissed
Hatred isn’t just about anger—it’s about feeling invisible. It grows when our deepest emotions are brushed aside. It’s not about wanting someone to fix things; it’s about needing someone to understand what we’re going through.
Healing and Moving Forward
We don’t hate people we don’t care about. I know it now. the people who at first were just acquaintances, they just go back to the realm of forgetfulness. they simply don't exist anymore. i simply delete them from my memory.
That’s why hate is inherently tied to love. To heal, we need to acknowledge that the hatred we feel is a reflection of the pain we carry. Healing is about recognizing that pain, learning from it, and finding a way to move forward—stronger, wiser, and free from the chains of resentment.
At Gem by Lamia, I believe that healing from deep emotions like hate or betrayal requires more than just time—it requires the right tools and support. Through emotional coaching and hypnotherapy for self-confidence, I can guide you to detox from these heavy emotions and help you reclaim your emotional freedom. Let’s work together to turn that pain into strength. Begin building confidence and self-esteem with the help of tailored coaching designed to empower you.
Take the first step toward healing with Gem by Lamia. You’re not alone in this journey—reach out, and let’s start transforming your emotional landscape today.
Lamia PabionFounder, Gem by Lamia
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